The People Make the Place

I’ve talked a lot with some others in the program about how weird time feels while on this trip. The trip somehow simultaneously felt so short and so long. It flew by because we were doing so much every day. But I also can’t believe that everything that just happened, happened in the span of only four weeks. I feel like I lived in a whole other reality for a month.

My favorite part about this trip was, undoubtedly, the people.

The people in my homestay, who gave me a home away from home.
My host parents, Lucky and Jose, who emanate joy, and benefit the lives of all of their guests. I’ll miss Jose’s jokes, and Lucky’s expressiveness. The others in my homestay, who made it all the more lively. We would stay at the dinner table long after finishing our food, filling the kitchen with laughter. And of course, Monika, Scilla, and Andres, who became my little family.

The people of Antigua, who gave me a sense of familiarity.
The baristas at the coffee shop down the street, who I got to know even if only for a short time. I felt more like a “regular” there than I do in Austin. The people who lived on the same avenida as us, who would always wave or make conversation. The friendly De La Gente coffee brewing guide who shared his stories and thoughts with us and who we now all follow on instagram.

The Maya people, who generously shared their lives with us.
Delfina, who told us about how weaving was about far more than just money, and so many others, who showed us how much they cared about maintaining their heritage. Dolores, who candidly recounted the struggles of the civil war. Kawok, who allowed us to be a part of a ceremony, and freely shared his opinions about site access laws with me.

And lastly, the people on this trip with me, who I’ve now shared so many incredible experiences with.

From homestay dinners, to coffee tastings, to sleeping in a treehouse, to boat rides, to beautiful views, to archaeological sites, to workshops, to FOOD, to deep talks, to the jungle, to the beach, to snorkeling with sharks, this trip was full of moments I’ll never forget.

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Maya’s Thoughts on a Maya Ceremony

….I had to make the joke at least once.

A few days ago, we bid goodbye to Antigua and hello to Belize. Belize is amazing, but it was definitely bittersweet to have to leave our beloved home away from home.

To end our studies in Antigua, we attended a Maya religious ceremony. It was just us, Kawok (the daykeeper), his wife and two children. I was so amazed that Kawok was willing to take us to the sacred site (which he said was passed down generationally) and lead us, as foreigners, in a ceremony. In that sense it was really meaningful emotionally, and gave a lot of closure for my stay in Antigua.

It was also meaningful in a more academic sense. There were things about Maya religion and culture that I knew from studying, but seeing Kawok actually carry out the ceremony and explain the meaning of everything allowed me to put everything together in my brain and conceptualize it better. It’s so different to read about a religion than to actually take part in a ceremony and feel every sensation. I was talking about this to Andres and he brought up the idea of a multi-sensory experience. The ceremony was just that – a multi-sensory experience. It was more than just hearing Kawok’s explanations, it was a combination of seeing the altar, the fire, each item burning, and feeling the warmth when he stirred up the fire, or the cool wind in the air, and hearing the crackling of the sesame seeds, and him speaking in Kaqchikel. It was not detached words you read on a page, it was the sum of many visceral sensations.

For me, it was an incredibly special experience and I so appreciate Kawok’s willingness to lead the ceremony for us. I couldn’t have asked for a better way to mark the end of my first (and hopefully not last!) stay in Antigua.

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