Bittersweet Goodbye

Leaving Guatemala and Belize was an incredibly bittersweet experience.  Don’t get me wrong, I was excited to be able to drink tap water and have working amenities like constant electricity, but the experiences I’ve had in Latin America were some of the most transformative of my life.  The people I’ve met, the history I’ve learned, and the opportunities I’ve lived while abroad were eye opening in terms of being culturally aware and undergoing extraordinary personal growth.

The Maya, both the modern people and their ancient ancestors, have shaped the way I look at life.  I’m leaving feeling much more in tune with nature, more appreciative of the simple things, and more spiritual.  After visiting ancient sites, particularly Tikal, I feel small, in a good way! I feel like I need to love more and worry less.  My patience has grown, and I try not to sweat the small stuff.  All the little complications seem useless to stress about.

Even though I will cherish the experiences I had, the people I met will be what I remember most of all.  The people I shared my experiences with will be forever friends.  They supported me when I was feeling home sick, talked me through culture shock, and made every multi-hour van ride fly by!

However, the women of Guatemala were the most inspirational of all.  Coming into the trip I expected to experience stronger gender roles, and frankly more soft-spoken women.  That was simply not the case.  Many of the women I met in Guatemala were strong entrepreneurs, active mothers, quick learners, progressive thinkers, and feminists.  I was consistently shocked by their adaptability and resilience towards both personal and cultural obstacles.  I’m leaving feeling empowered by the women I met, and more confident than ever that women can truly do it all.

Overall, I wouldn’t trade my trip to Guatemala and Belize for the world.  I’m leaving as a more patient, well rounded, adaptable, culturally aware person than when I started.

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Ceremony through Senses

We had the honor of experiencing a traditional Maya Day Keeper ceremony while in Antigua. His name was Kawoq and he provided us with an unforgettable opportunity. The ceremony encompassed so many elements that we feel it will be best described by working through the five senses of our experience.

Sight: Traditional textiles were wrapped around his head, his way of dawning the role of Day Keeper. His family was present; they were an intimate part of the ceremony. The candles he used as offerings were all different colors, each symbolizing a part of the environment and cardinal directions. White symbolized the North, wind, and air. Red illustrated the rising sun and the East. Yellow represented Earth and the South. Black stood for the setting sun and the West. Lakota tribe ceremonial feathers were beside the fire. A tribe member had asked Kawoq to have them present for each ceremony.

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Sound: Kawoq speaking in kaqchikel as he orchestrated the ceremony. Kawoq thanked each Nawal, explaining the meaning of our unique Nawales and how each of them embodied us in different ways. The fire crackled with each offering he added to the mound.

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Feel: The heat of the fire against our open hands, accepting the energy from the flames. Emotionally feeling at ease, tranquil, and peaceful. However, the journey of the ceremony encompassed a roller coaster of emotions as we gave thanks to our Nawales and our ancestors. We felt the sacred water, which had been blessed with herbs, that he gave us to put on our hands and face for protection and wellness.

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Smell: Incense burning, pine needle offerings, and sugar melting. Kawoq flung strong smelling liquid with a bushel of leaves at each of us, ensuring our safety in travel. The liquid we put directly on our skin smelled of herbs.

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Taste: The bitterness of a ripeningSanta peach, a sweet sign of gratitude from Kawoq’s young daughter Xochitl.

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Our experience with this ceremony was a little overwhelming. This is why we wanted to break it down into how we felt the experience. It truly was an authentic and intimate opportunity that people rarely get to take part in. We feel humbled and privileged to have witnessed such a significant part of traditional Maya culture that has stood the test of time.

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Rebecca (Kawoq)

Andrea (Aq’ab’al)

Rylie (B’aatz)

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